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Summer in Thailand: Saved entirely by Chinese mothers who accompany their children during their studies

原文:暑期泰国,全靠中国陪读妈妈拯救

Summary of the Key Points

This article begins with the author's personal experiences in Chiang Mai to depict the current living situation of Chinese mothers who accompany their children while studying there. Despite facing uncertainties regarding visa policies and security concerns in Thailand, these mothers choose to stay for extended periods due to low-cost interest classes, cost-effective international education, and a relaxed lifestyle. The Thai government has also introduced targeted visas to attract such long-term residents. However, the article highlights potential drawbacks of long-term residency (such as a high proportion of Chinese students in schools and varying quality of education), and makes comparisons with similar trends in domestic cities like Dali and Jingdezhen.

Detailed Analysis

1. Why Chiang Mai Has Become a “Happy Home” for Chinese Mothers? – Low Cost + Relaxation Are the Key Attractions

The appeal of Chiang Mai to these mothers lies in the ability to enjoy a comfortable life at a low cost:

  • High-value Interest Classes: Yoga, Thai boxing, tennis, Thai cuisine, and massage courses range from just a few dozen to over a hundred baht per session, with no need for annual memberships (which can cost tens of thousands in China). You can try these classes without the hassle of having to commit to a yearly subscription. For example, private golf coaching in China costs sixty to seventy thousand yuan per month, while in Chiang Mai, the total cost for competitions is only ten thousand baht.
  • Less Competitive Services: Instructors take their time to correct students' movements, and Thai cuisine classes involve teachers who are involved from selecting ingredients to preparing meals in the kitchen, unlike the aggressive sales tactics in China.
  • Relaxed Lifestyle: While children attend school, mothers can participate in various interest classes, reducing the stress of pushing them too hard. Even the mosquitoes seem to move at a slower pace (everything is done in a more leisurely manner).

2. The Little Troubles Behind the Happiness: Visa Concerns, Safety, and Education

Despite the comfort, mothers have their worries:

  • Visa Uncertainty: The 60-day visa exemption for Thailand may be revoked, so many are considering the DTV visa (valid for five years with each stay of up to 180 days). Some even plan to leave temporarily and return only after obtaining the 60-day visa.
  • Security Concerns Do Not Change Their Decision: Despite social media reports about safety issues in Thailand, these mothers’ main concern is whether they can stay for a longer time; safety has not deterred them from moving there.
  • The Challenges of Education: Popular schools (like Lanna and Prin) have high demand, and some classes have nearly half Chinese students. While they want their children to receive an international education, the quality of instruction varies, leading some mothers to send their children to Singapore for better opportunities.

3. The Thai Government’s Strategy to Retain Residents

The Thai government understands that long-term residents contribute more financially than short-term visitors:

  • Short-term visitors spend mainly on hotels and attractions; long-term residents rent apartments, eat out, enroll in classes, and seek medical care, spending money over a longer period. For example, the author’s friends’ expenses add up to a similar amount as what they would spend in China.
  • Therefore, the DTV visa was introduced to include remote work, Thai boxing training, and other activities in the application process, aiming to retain residents who spend money gradually. This is especially significant since Chinese families stand out after Koreans return home due to market fluctuations.

4. Similar Trends in China: Dali and Jingdezhen Becoming New Destinations for Living Abroad

Cities like Dali and Jingdezhen are also shifting from being tourist destinations to places where people can live:

  • Dali: Its pleasant climate and low cost attract digital nomads who work and live there.
  • Jingdezhen: The ceramic industry attracts people who initially wanted to learn pottery but eventually end up renting houses and opening businesses, becoming part of the local economy.

While these places lack the international schools and adult interest classes found in Chiang Mai, they offer middle-class residents a low-cost option for a short-term stay, allowing them to escape the high pressures of big cities and experience a different lifestyle.

5. The Essence of Living Abroad: It’s Not About Perfection, but Finding What Suits You

No city is perfect: Chiang Mai offers relaxation, but there are concerns about education; Dali and Jingdezhen have low costs, but lack international educational resources. Their commonality is that they provide a low-cost alternative that allows people to temporarily escape the competitive pressures of daily life.

What attracts mothers is the scenery and the relaxed atmosphere; what makes them return year after year depends on the local services (for example, Chiang Mai has integrated schools, apartments, and interest classes into a convenient living environment for residents).

In essence, this article argues that living abroad is not about escaping, but about adopting a low-cost way to experiment with different lifestyles—allowing people to experience a different kind of life without bearing too much pressure.